When a person feels unloved...guaranteed they will react negatively in some shape or form.   Want to know more?   Read on!! 

Eph. 5:33 commands a husband to love his wife? Why? She needs love like she needs air to breath. Eph. 5:33 commands a wife to respect her husband. Why? He needs respect like he needs air to breathe.

When you cause your wife to feel ‘unloved’ – she reacts. She will feel like she’s emotionally suffocating. It’s the same reaction you’d get, if you stood on her ‘air hose’ and cut off her supply of air to breathe. She will push her husband off her air hose, “Get off my air hose! Quit being so unloving!” Things can get out of control at this moment. Feeling unloved, she shows contempt!